hi folks  （　ﾟ Дﾟ） didnt find things interesting enough to blog it into my memories haha.. but guess i better pop in here to type a quick post before i forget the feel of blogging ^-^

sorry seems to be the hardest word dont you guys think? In the corporate world,corporations shun the use of this word even if they are sorry as  it actually just means "yea pls throw all the fault to me" as they close the door on their own argument

which is why we have cases of public figures whom jus refuses to speak sorry,as it is thought to be negative since they accept accountability and lose it's right to argue IMO

for some, maybe they want to portray themselves as someone fighting for their cause as giving an apology gives an impression that u had actually lost it, and pass the 'baton' to the guy on the other end.

anyway back to topic actually in everyday life, "Sorry" too is kinda like an enigma (ToT)

as a word it seems so easy to come out from others/you . For many though, face to face to the situation , it does feel certainly like the last word that you will say even if its a life-saver .

Some may also think that sorry is not important, since they try to do their best to salvage the situation when they are sorry so, there's isnt a need for this word.

Maybe its the ego/pride which moves its ways in us unconsciously? Maybe 'sorry' give you an impression that you are actually bowing to him(which u cant do since you dun agree with it?)

For me.. hmm i give you an example of how stubborn i was i once believed that even when i die i wouldnt say the word sorry ..since it used to  be really really hard to say and the difficulty increased as i thought more and more on whether to use the word  =\

i still remember when i was maybe 8/9 yrs old i got into trouble with the Principal and went into her office..

i knew i was wrong, but i just 'didnt want' to say sorry to her .. maybe i was too proud or maybe i jus didnt want to say the word and it got worse and worse ..

the principal called my home HERSELF in the end and i threw her phone/fax machine on the floor to prevent it from happening haha (i said i wanted to quit her school =X) anyway, in the end she managed to force a sorry from me which i remember i wrote on a paper it was smth like "Sorry miss chan i will not go to the eco-garden again" with my tears wetting the paper haha and it really wasnt worth it in hindsight..

just an example of how mightly hard it is to extract a sorry from me then(there are still a lot more example).. 

all in all, i felt its power when i finally managed to forget my pride and get this word out of my throat haha

just like how a bright smile is a girl best makeup , never underestimate the power of a sorry spoken from a heart.. 

S-O-R-R-Y this word can actually makes people feel better immediately and you too at the same time and you be actually surprised that how things become so much clearer after the word is blurted out.

for those who havent you might want to try it? it may seem really hard to get it out but seriously if u say sorry when u are REALLY sorry it REALLY helps as the person on the recieving end can feel it and change his own structure of thought when he realized that you admitted your mistake.

like a smile,there will many people actually abusing it but for a real smile or a true apology the magic will always be there.. 

P/S--To my readers, i appreciate different views on the subject too

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